You see her from across the room and you know that you just have to find a way to meet her. Her milky white skin and jet black hair just seems to be calling you. Who cares if she’s a goth girl and you’re not a goth guy? You can still meet her. You’ll want to find out what she likes, then you can attract that goth girl.
Step1
Learn more about the goth lifestyle and what you can do to fit into that world. Goths aren’t devil worshippers, but more like people who go with their own flow. They like to do what they feel instead of doing what other people tell them.
Step2
Find out what her interests are and what she likes. Ask her friends for a little help, or keep an eye on what she does during the day. You might discover that she loves a specific poet, which can give you a great opening.
Step3
Approach her by asking a question about something she’s wearing or something she said in class. If she’s wearing a band tee-shirt, ask her if she’s ever seen them in concert, or what her favorite song is, so you have something to talk about.
Step4
Be her friend and take things slow. Disregard any rumors or stories you’ve heard about goth girls and focus on the type of person she is instead of what you’ve heard. Build a rapport with her and she’ll be more likely to feel an attraction to you.
Step5
Ask her out on a group date to start out because that takes the pressure off both of you. Ask her to bring along a few of her close friends and you bring along a couple of yours. This puts you both in neutral territory and she’ll be more likely to open up to you.
Tips & Warnings
* Find common ground by looking for things you have in common. This gives you something to talk about and you don’t have to fake an interest.
* Don’t even think about approaching her if the only thing you know about goth is one Marilyn Manson song. She’ll see right through you and move quickly in the opposite direction.
* Don’t turn yourself into a goth guy if that’s not the kind of person you are. Not only does it look phony, but she’ll find it completely unattractive.
